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I am a straight male sensualist just discovering his Dominant side. I am new to the scene, very willing to learn, seeking friends and playmates to help me belong and discover what I do and do not like. I live in North Kirkland near Woodinville, Kingsgate if you know where that is. I have some friends at the Wet Spot (CSPC), and I keep my membership current. Please 'mail me if you want to get to know me better.

Here's my screamsheet:

Sexual Identity/Mostly straight (I rate a .75 or so on the 1-6 Kinsey scale)

Age/21 (BD 26 May 1987)

Location/North Kirkland (~20-30 mins. NW of Seattle, zip code 98034)

Height/~6'2"

Weight/~150 lbs. (~68 kilos)

Ethnicity/White (British Isles mutt)

Drinks/My limit is 1-2 in a day due to medications, but no problem with others drinking so long as they don't get wasted

Smokes/No, hypersensetive (read: allergic)

Relationship Status/Polyfidelitous; I have a primary (gweezer) but am always looking for secondaries and play partners.

Music/Nearly everything, classical to folk to rock (soft/hard/everything in between) to metal to... well, you get the idea.

Books/Sci-Fi (Heinlein especially), fantasy (Mercedes Lackey rules!), nearly everything else to some degree (voracious reader when I have time). I love Laurell K. Hamilton's Anita Blake and Meredith Gentry series.

Sports/Long-time martial artist (Formely Jeet Kune Do at Miller's Martial Arts Academy in Bellevue, just started Aikido/Hapkido at the Enso Center in Redmond)

Tattoos/None at the moment, I mean to get some eventually though

Scarification/See tattoos

Piercings/My ear holes healed over, but I intend to get them redone & possibly gauged.

Kinks & Sexual Preferences:
No real fetishes, but I like younger looking women (emphasis on looking, I also want maturity), the feel of running my fingernails down someone elses body & receiving the same, teasing (giving), some limited dominance roleplay... I'm still learning what I like, and would welcome offers to help me discover myself ;-)
I'm also unusual for a guy in that I generally prefer a good BJ/handjob to penetrative sex, and will often fuck for a while, withdraw, and finish that way. I have good stamina :-)
I really care about my partners, and it's very important to me that whoever I'm with gets what they want, whether it be satisfaction at having serviced me, a mouthful of cum, or just many many orgasms ;-)
Intimacy is more important to me by far than sex, and as I mentioned, manual sex more important than intercourse. I feel cheated if I don't get to go down on a woman, and I love to play with her until she squirms and begs for me to finish it. I love to kiss and cuddle for an hour or more, and can walk away from such an encounter satisfied, though I probably wanted to go further. I am a sensualist to my very core, and intimate touch is food and drink to my spirit.

Piecing it back together. I've been dealing with some very serious health problems which have prevented me from working or going to school, and I'm slowly working my way back into some semblance of a functional routine. More recently I've been dating and progressively falling for my kitty-cat, gweezer.

Sex, the D end of D/s, reading, literary editing, singing, ecstatic dancing

my hair, my jewelry, my voice (very deep)

TOUCH (cuddles, hugs, you name it. I'm known as a cuddle slut even in parts of the local Furry community.)

Sex

Dominance (as in BDSM)

Books

Friends

the Internet

Acceptance (seven is a lucky number, get over it)

Sex, BDSM, philosophy, whatever I'm doing that day and gweezer

EDITORS

• gweezer

at home on my computer, wishing I had something better to do and could afford to do it

I have an infant daughter from an accidental pregnancy. She lives with her mother full-time, ~100 miles away.

You want a friend, especially if you want to play. I prefer to play with friends. You're okay playing with someone who's poly, and understand that I won't go beyond play partners with most people. The most anyone will get is status as a secondary partner; my primary always comes first.